My father was ill for 4 years with Altzheimers and they never came around, even though my mom begged them for help.I was my dads sole caretaker 4 years, none from them, zero. After he passed they moved right in and now take my mom shopping everyday, her garage is looking like a store. They dont work, just shop. Well today I went to my moms and my sisters took our fathers remains off the fireplace mantel and put them away on a back book shelve, so they could put up fall decorations on the mantel! I flipped out! My dad does not belong put away. He belongs in the room, with his family. My mom know thinks its all ok for my sisters to keep disrespecting my father, like they did when he was alive. Its NOT ok with me to have my dads ashes put away until the holidays are over. Its not ok with me at all. I put my father back where he was, in the family room, watching over us. I will defend my father in death, as I did in his life until his last breath. My mom will no longer talk about anything in front of me, my sisters whisper when im around, and my mom lies for them. I dont like this, not at all. They did nothing for my parents at all, nothing, zero. My mom would beg my sisters to vome and heolp with my dad, she would cry. he kept telling them it was not right to let me do everything alone, in which I did, Diaper changes and all. Now im an outcast and the leaches have taken over, and my poor old mother is gong along with them. My mom, me and my dad use to travel, go places, see things, up until a week before he died. We went everywhere together. Now I cant get my mom out of the house without my sisters who dont have jobs, so she pays for everything, which is so wrong. Now my mom sits at home or shops, nothing else. My mom talks about traveling together, but I wont go without them, i wont go and watch my mom pay for them. it disgust me. What do I do?