I take care of my Mom. She is qualified for nursing home care. I live with her. My sister has undercut my efforts with gossip. I have never done anything wrong. Others have been told that I abuse my mom, that I steal her money.... I have noticed that I am not being treated the same. An intervention specialist helped some but by the time I found out what had been done to me so many had the wrong impression. What else can I do but tolerate the effects of such devastating gossip.