Has anyone else experienced this? Many times I feel my dad purposely tries to piss me off and being nice makes him treat me worse. I have unfortunately been through this too many times with other people in my life (on jobs for example). Why is it that when you are nice to people, they see it as an open door to exploit you and it is only when you scream and yell, that they finally respect you?
I get frustrated by this because in my mind, why should I have to yell and scream to get people to respect me and listen to me? Why won't they listen and respect me when I am calm and nice?
Too many games! That is why I LOVE my cat! I want to marry my cat!