Gram & Gramp have a condo in Clearwater. Gramp has passed, Gram is with us. They have a Trust set up, upon both of their passing, the condo was to be sold and profits split between the 3 creepy kids. It's my understanding that the Trust is only valid upon her passing. Oldest son wanted to buy their condo. Gram said absolutely not. Oldest son drove from MO to FL to bring her to MI, talked her into selling him the condo for $30K. Hubs and I agreed that it's fully her condo to do with what she pleases, she could give it to a stranger if she wants. Gram changes her mind again, no sale. One week later and several phone calls from the Oldest son, sale is on. Son sends check for $30K, gram deposits it. (We are currently in the midst of the 10 day wait for it to clear) Gram talks to her sister who says the sale price is crazy, she could get way more. Essentially the deal Oldest Son made with gram was he would forfeit his 1/3 of the sale, and the $30k would be split between the 2 sisters. Sort of as if the condo was $45K...however, only paying $30 means his is essentially getting his 1/3. In the middle of all this, I told gram and hubby that it's only been 6 months since Gramp passed, now is not the time to make big decisions like this and it should be revisited next summer. Now the sale is off AGAIN! She wants to get to the bank asap and send him his money back. BTW..he re-mortgaged his house to get the $30K. At this point, I think it's pretty crappy to back out. Any thoughts are appreciated!!!!