Mom is 90 and started a tremendous physical decline just this Christmas. For the first couple of weeks, it was pain management and physical therapy. Now, my out of town sister, who mean well, but is very controlling has swept into town and completely taken over, and my mother is currently in hospital with cellulitis and completely bedridden and may not even live, let alone get out of a nursing home. I am frantically looking for nursing care for her which makes me the bad guy. My relationship with my mother is completely shot. She now has the nurses bar me from the room while my sister gives me "keep up the good work looks behind her back." I feel miserable, and I feel like the only one who is being realistic here..likewise, I'm probably out of the will by now, which is no big deal..any thoughts?