My DD is at war with me. I have my wits about it, nothing like that. I am elderly. She wrote me a very scathing hateful letter. She says she doesn't want to see me, hear from me or anything. In this letter she outlined every mistake I ever made. She is very angry with me. It is almost like the letter the Unabomber sent his mother. Do you think she has a mental illness? She is in her 30's. She has a very good job helping me. I wonder how much help she can give them. I have been crying all day. Going to see my counselor in a few minutes. Need advice so badly as I am hurting so badly. Please say something nice.