My mom is sick of putting up with my dad who has dementia. He has become really mean all the time and his drinking doesn’t help. We haven’t had a “family meeting” with the neurologist yet but I don’t see how that will help? I’m pretty sure he will get kicked out of a nursing home or care facility because of his attitude but there has to be something we can do. Do you talk to him about his drinking or dementia or both? How do you convince someone who is in denial?