
Replacing the much lamented 'On My Mind' profile option, this thread is for musings, jottings, whimsies, preoccupations and the rest of the thesaurus for anyone to jot down anything they please.
I can't remember what the maximum character count was before, can anyone else? But anyway it wasn't very many so let's keep to that.
Met an adventurous older lady today. Said she left for a holiday a few years ago... Left her hot, dry, boring state of abode, found a place with mountains, beaches, rivers. She loved it so much she just never went back!
Sigh.. maybe sometimes being wildly impulsive instead of always being sensible & practical pays off?
I too am happy to be merely at home today 😊. But I AM on the lookout for that magic mountain, beach, river land!
The Ukraine situation is terrible, Russia said before it wouldn’t start executing ppl, and here they are doing it. Even if you have other concerns it’s normal to be concerned about these things.
That said, milhell, you probably can’t make this place where mil is any better.
My bosses wife is from the Ukraine, I help her a few hours a day. I read her news and it sickens me.
On the 24th, Russia is planning a mass execution of the Maripol defenders on a stage built on the ruins of a theatre they killed kids. This will never be on US TV.
I guess my life is not as bad as it could be.
Disagreeing is saying "I don't concur with that; here are more facts thar clarify the situation". You are name calling. Using threats and sarcasm.
No, I am not a moderator or an administrator.
Do you run this site to determine, who has a place here?
You messaged me the same thing you posted here to "help."
Do you care for anyone? Or just determine who has a place on this site?
All because I disagree with one person.
I mentioned the liver transplant because Lea has been through ALOT of caregiving between her parents and her husband.
MIL, YOU are treating her badly. You insulted her. What on earth do you mean about "what's in HER backyard"? Who is telling you "stuff" about posters here?
She wasn't judging you. She was giving you advice. Good advice.
We are trying to help you. If you don't want to hear how other people view the situation that YOU'VE presented to us, then this isn't a good place for you.
What to do when you are feeling judged?
Feeling judged by people you meet
Manage underlying social anxiety. ...
Practice being okay with being judged. ...
Consider how often you judge others. ...
Notice the negative assumptions that you're making. ...
Ask yourself if you know for a fact someone is judging you. ...
Come up with compassionate answers to your inner critic.