Nursing home has not returned $11,000 deposit.

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I didn't want to complain, but finally had to. Just sent off an e-mail to the nursing home, disgusted, not with Mom's care, but with their billing.
When Mom was going to be admitted, I got a call at 7pm telling me I needed to give them a check for $22,000 before she would be admitted (one month in advance and $11,000 deposit to be returned) I did this in good faith.
It has been six weeks since Mom passed and no reimbursement of the $11,000, or reimbursement for the rest of the month after she passed which I pre-paid. I called 10 days ago and they left a message the check would be coming. Nada.

What is wrong with these people? Every single month I had to call them and ask for a bill because they never sent one. They also stopped breaking out the tax exemption and I had to request that for our tax return. Finally the last month she was there, the representative at the NH told me billing was making a mistake every month and applying the deposit as a monthly payment (by mistake) (of course billing was done from somewhere else)
Lets see how long it will take before someone gets back to me.

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AmyGrace, even though my Mom passed 5 months ago, I am still getting summary notices from Medicare and the Medicare Supplement. What I see on these summaries are payments to the nursing home doctor. I don't bother even checking to see how accurate everything is... just too overwhelming. As long as it is not a bill :)

I bet the extra $1k could be for days not used during the month that your Mom had passed. The place where my Mom had stayed, they would charge for things a month in advance. So I got back a half a month rent plus misc items.
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Glad it all worked out and you got an extra $1k.
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Happy dance!
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Got our deposit back today! Yay!
I made one more call and asked why, when they told me it would be 30 days, they were still holding it almost 60 days. She said it might be because the insurance hadn't paid all her medical bills yet. I said "WHAT?" What medical bills does the health insurance have to pay the nursing home? (I didn't quite understand her answer. It makes no sense to me, but at this point it doesn't matter.)
She called the home office and then called me back saying she had authorization to send me the check (the unpaid medical bills were only around $200) Mom had Tricare for Life and it paid just about everything. I never wrote a check for medical care for anything except a small co-pay on prescriptions directly to a pharmaceutical dispenser company.
Anyway, the check was for almost $1000 more than the deposit. I can't figure out why! It isn't surprising since the billing dept got just about every invoice wrong (or didn't send one because they kept applying the deposit to monthly payment and then had to reverse it out) I wasn't about to question how they calculated that check, but maybe some day I'll get another bill from them asking for it back.
Moral of the story to everyone paying loved ones bills - don't pay anything until you have checked it out and make sure it is correct - especially medical bills.
I am finally going to be able to finish settling Mom's estate but plan to keep the account open for a year with some money in it to cover taxes or whatever unexpected thing happens.
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One thing i would add to the already good suggestions is to download the app smart recorder to your phone. Use it everytime you make a phone call from either your cell phone or if you have a home phone use speaker and set your smart phone close by that way you have a recording of every conversation you have with them. I use mine whenever i have to have a record of an important conversation. The app is free an easy to use. You can also use it in face to face meetings so they cannot back track and say they never told you that when in fact they did.
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AmyGrace, I am the same way, I rather email someone than call them on the phone or meet in person. But for the long-term-care facility when I got my Mom's first month's rent, I needed help with the breakdown on what everything was... thus I went in person. Everyone was very pleasant but they looked overworked.... gosh 3 billing employees squeezed into one tiny office, who could work under those conditions :P
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I went through all my cancelled checks and calculated the per day charges since Nov 6. By my calculations, they owe me $10,870 ($10,500 deposit, plus one day at $370. I was told (verbally I would receive the check in 30 days) The contract says refunded promptly. I don't think 48 days is prompt.
Interesting they have not responded to my e-mail either. I really don't need this. I've had all the financial responsibilities for 8 years and most of the rest, now executor. I don't mind getting it done as sis always please "I don't understand all that" but gees, I hate conflict and confrontation and don't want to get into it with the NH!
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AmyGrace, one thing I have noticed is that mail isn't always sent to the correct address. My Dad gets mail at the IL where he lives.... he gets mail at my house due to me trying to transfer all the bills to my attention... and he gets mail forward from where he use to live with Mom, and that takes 2 to 3 weeks turn around to get to my mailbox.

I still haven't fully checked to see if my Mom had to pay a security deposit, I scanned quickly the paperwork from the facility but didn't notice anything.... I will need to check my checkbook or credit card. The facility did rebate me a half of month's rent as my Mom passed on the 15th of that month.... that check came in 30 days.
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Mine says "will be refunded promptly upon resident's death and anything over 60 days will be put in an interest bearing account. It also says $10,500 was required but they asked me for $11,000 which I gave them. I guess I have to get my cancelled checks together and prove what they owe, then call them and demand the money be sent immediately or I will contact our lawyer. Gees, I can't believe this!
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Amygrace, This is not the time to wait to see what they are going to do.

You don't want to find out too late there is a lien on the funds, or that they remitted the funds to someone else. Go to the off premises billing/accounting dept. imo.
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