My Uncle (Mom's brother), who lives on the other side of the country, started emailing me yesterday about how he wishes he could rent a Winnebago and take Mom out there. I told him I wish she could also, but I didn't know if would be feasible. Then he emails me a link to a nursing home out there, and also a company called Medcoach so I take that as a hint that he wants her out there. I told him I would look into it but that if he mentions it to Mom he better be truly prepared to follow through with it. Mom is like a child in that if you tell her you are going to do something you better do it or she will pout.
This is what he said: Obviously I have kicked up a bees nest. No have no plans no wants, it was just I was getting the impression you are feed up. (I think he meant fed up.)
I am happy say that we forget I emailed you. I just wanted her to be able see pictures from us. That is it. Why I emailed you.
So, being the person that I am, I emailed him back and asked him why he feels like I am fed up taking care of Mom. His response? Just instincts.......... your tone. So in the future just ignore me
Well, I called Medcoach and they called me back with the quote. $16.443.00!!! That is a 25 ft motorcoach and it is 2 drivers and a nurse. They would drive straight through.
I am going to ignore him from now on. Just had to vent to people who understand!