My mother was diagnosed a year ago. She is very difficult. She will not go out and she will not take care of herself without a lot of difficulty. It took a big argument to get her to go to a very necessary md appointment. She smells like urine and will do nothing about it. She refuses any kind of help to come into the house and she never will leave the house. My sisters live with her so they pretty much dictate how to handle the situation. They do not want mom told she has Alzheimer and they will not push to bring people in to help get mom clean. How do you convince an elderly person to do things that they refuse to do?