I am beyond grossed out!!
He has seriously high blood pressure, both kidneys are shot and a very weak heart. Throw in the sleep apnea, gout and high cholesterol and you have a perfect recipe for disaster. He stopped taking all meds over 7 months ago. Declaring himself feeling great and that nothing is wrong with him.
He refuses to go to the doc, bathes infrequently, wears the same filthy outfit for weeks and we have not had marital relations for close to 6 years.
If I say anything...I am told I am crazy and I am making a mountain out of a molehill.
I am feeling resentful now because he refuses to get help and I am the one who is stressed out while he is perfectly content to watch the television all day. He doesn't speak to me but will chat for hours with his friends!
I feel like packing and leaving. We have been married for 11 years and did not have much of a married life before his odd behaviour started.
PS....he has not been officially diagnosed with dementia.