Mother is very ill with advanced heart disease and dementia. She was always very loving and sweet natured. Now she gets angry all the time. Seems like she is most angry with me than my siblings. So doubly hard. When she gets angry, she takes what I have said and twists it into a different meaning. I cannot explain what I meant and so I end up agreeing with her saying "yes, I did that and I am sorry". It is not a good way to handle things so I need advice.
Hope its okay to add a second issue and it is this. She seems to have sundowning in the morning rather than at night. Doctor has called it sundowning, but can it happen early in day? this is the time she is most agitated and upset How do I help her with that?