I gave up trying to tell my mother anything important in my life a long time ago, because nothing is more important in her mind than HER. So this morning as Im taking her to pick up her prescriptions I tell her I found a lump in my arm pit and its scaring the heck out of me and all I get is " well my dr told me I better take this medicine or else and goes off into her own little pity land This is OFFFICALLY the LAST time I EVER try and discuss anything real with her again. My mother lives right under my own roof yet I have NO mother. How sad is that. Just need to vent... AGAIN because its sooooo HARD living and caring for someone who cares about NOTHING other than themselves.