My mother has been living with 2 different sisters for the last 10 years. Before that she lived with me for about 2 years. During this time she interrfered with my children's lives, most were adults by then I only had one other under 12. She was always critical of my sons girlfriend who is now his wife . worst of it she never accepts her and is rude to her which hurts my sons feelings. My other son and his wife are neutral and take it or leave but my eldest get hurts and doesn't understand. Now he has 2 children and she only visits my daughter and her family and ignores him. When I say anything to her she says that my son has never given her the propermrespect from my son and says that his wife was never right for him and is cold toward her. I ndont know what to say to my sdokns when he asks me why she is this way yo him.