We brought my husbands mother back to her own home and we moved in with her to in homecare for her bause her daughter almost bankrupted her assets. I knew it would be difficult but nothing like what it has been like. Mom needs more attention than I can give. She fights literaly when bath time comes, we've done everything we know of to help her be comfortable but when she dosen't want to do something she won't. And if it means hitting, kicking.biteing.etc. she will......and she is as strong as an ox too!!! I feel like I'm letting my husband down but I haven't been able to take care of the rest of my family because mom needs so much care and supervision everyday. We do have some inhome caregivers who have been wondreful but she needs more than that. Moms dementia is farther reaching than what we knew.