I am 33 years old and had a job but had to stop due to my fathers hospitalization. He was in very critical condition... anyways this is not about him. This is about my mother. She can not drive due to tunnel vision and can not walk a straight line due to a stroke. Other than that, she can function well on her own. I look up to her for answers and everything all my life, but now it seems that I have a wonderful man in my life. She seems to be using that against me, making statements about welfare checks and other cruel remarks about me. Im personally getting tired of her trying to get in to every aspect of my life. I love her, but my god its getting to be too much for me. She can be downright cruel to me unprovoked!