What do you do when My mother NEVER cared for females being around her and I'm the daughter it was always about her (2) sons or grandsons. Now my brothers have thrown me in because I'm single to care for mother. They don't want to care for her, don't spend time with her don't take her out for anything. They dont know what I put up with here. I've had to move in with her. I had to quit my job and now she is threatening me by saying I'll be sorry one day. She thinks I have to take her everywhere and most of the time I do but she gets hateful with people we get around or she mumbles and no one can understand her and she gets mad if you ask her to speak up. But it's an all day job just to pack her up get her dressed and hope she dont poo on herself thats happen twice. Then getting her in the van with the wheelchair that may work or not I do have medical supplies because my father had it before he passed 9/26/2017. So that has been a good thing, but I guess I ask because I feel as if Im being tortured. They don't want to deal with her and she only wants me here to do her every step for her. She has an Electric wheelchair and I have to Disable it because she can walk but just because my Father had it shes decided that she’ll use it and her doctor has told her not to AND the Doctor (primary) she only has him because he’s handsome in her eyes. This is a woman that was married 3 times and now My father wasn’t even in the grave a month that she started losing weight, buying new Close, wanting to get new makeup and then go out and buy a car that she want be able to use. The doctor also told her her driving days was over. I'm telling everyone out there that has a mother like mine I will keep you in my prayers. I'm torn in so many ways I dont know what to do first.