I'm getting steamrolled. The more I do, the worse I get treated. I have brother who never helps, yet I get the wrath. She still writes checks, and controls her finances, but uses me as her scapegoat whenever shes upset. Which is all the time. How do I go about getting her evaluated without the backlash at me for doing this? My brother doesn't talk to me, and labels me a complainer if I mention him. He takes advantage of this dysfunctional house. I'm told it only gets worse.