He tries to be independent. Will not ask for help. Doesn't realize that it's much easier to help him than to clean up his messes. His language is awful. Can't speak a sentence without using four letter words. He has always used this type language but has gotten much worse. We have asked repeatedly that he not use it. He talks this way when home health nurses and therapists come to visit. I try to ignore it but it is really hard. He even talks this way when talking about church. Only attends church for social reason. My husband has asked him not to use that kind of language but it does no good. I feel it is disrespectful. Thank you for allowing me to vent, not sure if this is the correct place to do it.