I take care of my mom. In her early 90s. For about five years now. Some serious medical issues, but under control. She gets around, cooks and can do basic things. She tends to be paranoid and accuses me of doing things "deliberately." (This problem extends to external contacts as well) This has been a pattern for years. Last night, she accused me of some nonsense and it wouldn't stop. I got angry, lost temper, swore, and immediately regretted my behavior. I apologize later, but it does no good. This has happened before. Most of the time we get along, and then she gets into these moods. I've completely turned over my life for this and I'm now in my mid-60s. The stress is hard. I'm lucky I can work from home, but I feel as if the stress of this is just wearing me down. The stress is constant. I never know what might set her off. I have no one to talk to about this.