I take care of my parents who live with me and my husband. Father has dementia and mother has mobility issues. I also have a husband who is very demanding and I believe he is a narcissist. I do have caregivers full time, seven days a week so I have a house full of people. Today the caregiver needed my help with my father, who at times can be very belligerent. He is bedbound but very, very strong. While we were changing him, he tried to kick and punch us. He was so angry, yelling and screaming. It took a while before he finally settled down but I was drained. Then later on that evening when I went to give my mother medicine she asked me what happened to the jewelry that was in her dresser drawer. She showed me an empty box. I had no idea what she was talking about because I don't go into her drawer. She kept asking about her jewelry and said somebody had stolen it. I was really upset because I felt she was accusing me or the caregivers. Then after that episode, my husband hands me some papers that he wants me to correct. I really blow up. Every single day there are so many issues that I have to deal with. No one says "please" or "thank you" or "would you mind doing this." I don't expect my father to understand because of his disease but his behavior is very stressful. My mother is a constant complainer and no matter what I do it is never right and I feel like a total dummy. My husband resents my doing so much for my parents that when he wants me to help him with his work reports he gets angry when I don't do it right away. I feel totally unappreciated. I don't expect a pat on the back for everything, but I feel like Cinderella who never got to the ball.