Just a vent...
I can not do this anymore. Everyday is a fight, crying, throwing up and a few drinks.
Right after my birthday, the person I hate the most in this world's child changed her address, dropped her off at my house and it is hell. I hate her first of all. Secondly, she is not my problem. So Covid hit and there are restrictions. She needs 2 hours of some circulation boot twice a day and advanced wound care besides everything else.
So today is the second day with no workers. I told her to call Medicaid and someone who cares about her wellbeing. The fake crying and snot makes me sick all while she lied and said people were coming to get her.
So I texted, "She lied again, come take care of her or call her family." I am not involved. I get back, "Go F OFF" and "I'm so F*ING SICK OF YOU." All because I cannot and will not get involved.
I seriously want to drag her out of my house and drop her off anywhere.
It is getting dark and my stomach is turning because in about 30 minutes, I will be at war.
Thank you for listening.
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Why did you let her in when she was dropped off? There is something (well, a lot of things actually!) amiss here. Why do you keep getting involved when you are no relation to her?
If the living arrangement has become too much for you (and you would certainly not be alone on that score), then call an ambulance and have her brought to the hospital. Then explain to them at the hospital that the woman's child, who is her next of kin, abandoned her at your home and has left no forwarding address or contact information. Tell them that you will not have her back at your home and they will make another arrangement for her.
How can they change her address to yours? Where I live you have to have proof that you live there. Are the restrictions starting to be lifted so that you can have her evicted?
Your situation is made so much worse with all the new pandemic rules. You have to take care of you and find a way to avoid her and whomever is starting a war with you. Is there a realistic way of doing this?
It is normal to want to drag her out of your house, obviously you would not do that or it would have already been done. Don't beat yourself up over these feelings, they are only dangerous when acted upon.
Start researching how you can get her out of your house and you will start feeling better, being active towards an end goal always empowers us.
Passive aggressive: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way.
Adult Protection Services maybe able to help if this person is no relation to you.
Allow others to do what you are not interested in doing.
I wouldn’t want someone caring for me if their heart wasn’t in it. It’s clear that you want out because of this person that you hate. Maybe you are burning out and need rest.
It’s okay to put a stop to it, for all concerned.
Venting?