Hi, my neighbor is looking for someone to replace me.
She has no advanced directives in place, no will and no legal nothing. She owns a very modest home outright, would probably sell as is for under 100k.
I cannot reason with her, and I give up. Thanks to the wonderful replies you so thoughtfully gave me, I learned so much. I am going to focus on me now. I have needs, lots of needs.
I hope she gets the help she wants. I cannot stand watching someone call the shots and refuse to act responsibly with property and make future plans for eventual decline. I released myself from being party to it. I could not have come to this conclusion if not for this wonderful forum and the great people who post. Thank you!
I was once entrapped with a needy neighbor, who seems to have conned everyone else into helping her.
It took almost a year to break free, even though I was not her only "helper".
I'm totally stealing the "Hopping Frog Award!"
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Hopping Frog Award!
(for jumping clear of the slowly heated pot before you boiled)
Time for neighbour to assemble a new team to meet her needs - time for you to plan for you :)
I hope your neighbor finds a suitable replacement soon.