Almost one year ago I moved in with my significant other and his elderly grandfather. Over the past year my significant other lost his grandmother (who was in a home at the time I moved in) and his grandfather's health has severely declined (these are his adopted parents). We are 18 and 19 and trying to do this almost completely alone. So far we are handling everything okay but it has put a significant weight on my guys shoulders. I need some advice on how to keep my SO from feeling overloaded with stress and make sure his mental and emotional health is okay.