myhusbands daughter and her 2and 3 year old babies have moved in for a lack of a place to go. His daughter is a mess! The kids are a mess, how can I threaten her or do something about this without starting complete caous in my household. which is already happening, drinking and u name it going on under my roof, I want it stopped and NOW!!!! I have enough with mom, now two babies and a messed up mother! HELP!!!!!She also dissapears for days at a time and doesnt care, she is on something we already know, but we dont know what...............she needs rehab, buy says shed kill herself first!