I left AgingCare as a regular member several years ago due to illness. I posted a question that I needed advice on.

I could only find one other current post regarding a question about Adult Protective Services and follow up. You seemed satisfied with the replies. All the other posts I saw go back to 2014 and earlier.
Am I missing another current post?

Edit: Never mind. Found it! Post regarding a bother getting POA...

I think that several of us have gone back and read your previous posts.

You have presented a situation in which various family memebers are shown in several different lights, i.e., you seem to tend to see folks as either all good or all bad. In addition, you are not being forthcoming as to how your mom's NH fees are being paid. You say her money is not being used to pay for her care, but certainly her NH bill is a huge hit each month.

Either she is on Medicaid and her money and property is in a trust (which would have been a wise thing for your family to do) or you are simply not aware of the financial arrangements that have been made.

In the past you have characterized your mother as a narcissist. She made your brothers her power of attorney. In this situation, I would step away and let her reap what she has sown.