I left AgingCare as a regular member several years ago due to illness. I posted a question that I needed advice on.

Shadow child. I think you have me confused with someone else. I have no son. Never did have (sadly enough). Two lovely daughters, and couldn't be happier about them. As I said, nothing but good wishes for you ongoing and moving forward, especially for health. With it, everything else can be handled. Take care of yourself. Best wishes.

Not being very computer-oriented, I think I sometimes, erroneously, "respond" to the wrong person, not the person for whom my response is intended. Then my comment may be rather inappropriate. I must work at correcting this. (I'm elderly myself, and have some minor cognitive difficulties...verbal abilities, not so much) But if I feel strongly, I try to be as objective as possible. On the other hand, I live independently in a covid19 "locked down" facility. Rarely have a chance to talk to another live human being, so possibly get "carried away". I apologize to anyone affected.