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And I know what I have been told to do. But it's easier said, than done. I guess I was raised differently or something, or the generation, but I still believe her OWN children should step up, do some of filling out of the many forms, fixing some thing for her to eat 100s of times a day, etc. You know, just the general daily crap that needs to be done, but I also know that is just a pipe dream. Sorry, bad day, no question.

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You are a fixer and a do-er. As long as you are fixing and doing, no one worries that you’ll crash and burn, just that you keep doing it.
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So sorry. She is his responsibility. I HATE forms. In the process of getting nephew help and hope I never have to fill out another form eventually. Bad that husband doesn't think the car insurance is important.
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Nothing seems to work, he has had his hand held for too long. Just to give an example, the car insurance is expired and we did get the renewal. I have been telling him this for several days. So, I took it to him to put in the car. Still sitting where he put it on the bedside table. He used to scream at me if I didn't have this. I kinda wish he would get pulled over and get a ticket.
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Lost, have you considerd just leaving the paperwork on the kitchen table?
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Hugs, Lost. I'm sorry you are having a bad day. I know it all must be really frustrating. We're here for you to vent away. Try to do something nice for yourself today, even if it's just sneaking out for a few to get a favorite treat :)
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(((Hugs))) to you and a boot in the behind for your husband and his family.
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