We brought my mom up for Christmas and I was rewrapping her legs and I discovered that one of the callous fell off where the ulcer from 2015 was. It’s oozing but I have it wrapped with gauze. It’s just draining a little but we took her home today and I am just so scared of what’s to come. Of course her foot doctor is gone through the holidays. We go to her regular doctor Thursday but I have to be back Friday for my own appointment that’s very important for my pain management. I just had a procedure done on the 20 th for the pancreas. I am just not ready. Plus I am starting to realize she isn’t telling me the truth about bathing or at least washing herself, she had major diarrhea and if it weren’t for me washing her down there she would just have put another diaper on. Every time i mention having someone come in to do the dishes (husband did them with gloves on) and bathing and some laundry or groceries. I am dreading this conversation because she then says she can’t do anything right or she is a burden. She doesn’t listen to me for anything. I would have kept her up here but my husband has had before Christmas to the 3rd and he is struggling with depression and I know he needs me too. I talked to my cousins to check on her, one is a nurse until Thursday. I am already tired. Sorry I also need to add that my husband actually washed her clothes twice with borax and gloves. He said everything had soiling on it.