I find that I am very judgmental when reading some of these threads. I get angry with the "hospice kills people" ones, the ones that seems to assume the OP isn't doing their best; the ones that say, only people who don't care send their parents to a nursing home. And the ones who say, why does everyone say care giving is so hard. I take my 60 year old aunt to buy groceries once a month and then she treats me to lunch and we have a wonderful time.
Not to mention criticizing when I don't fully understand the situation.
Any suggestions for getting past that.