My husband was placed in home hospice 6/16, into a facility 5 months ago. My time left with him is no one's idea. I find myself getting upset/sad/mad/ and depressed over his leaving sooner than me. I won't have anyone to take care of me when I'm unable to care for myself. Now mom is there. I have her power of attorney and am trying to get her paperwork in order. She has assets but it will not pay for the rest of her life somewhere. Meantime my only younger sister has serious mental issues. She moved in with mom 5 years ago and immediately began rescuing cats from traps in alley and bringing them in moms home against her wishes. She has been verbally/emotionally/financially and physically abusive to her. She won't move out on her own now that she has Social Security, and the house now has no electricity. She freely uses mom's car which now is not insured, doesn't pay toll bills while driving it, and is a real barrier to my getting stuff done. She was dragging 89 year old mom with mobility problems all over the state while she drove mom's car trying to find a hospital to give her pain meds. Didn't lift a finger to help her in any way. Sorry this is the wrong place, but I did sign up through my facebook account and was typing but your screen changed and I cannot find it now.