Parents while they are young need to plan for the golden years to take care of themselves and not drain the life out of there children. Too many parents out there blow there monies and do not plan on there future but expect there kids to take care of them. Where on earth did these attitudes come from. A lot of kids end up drained and angry at there parents. Why would a loving parent want to do that to there children and leave there children with an awful memory of there parents life, at the way they became in there later years.