I have had the flu and staying away from him. About the time I start feeling better, I start staying in the same bed with him. Now he tells me he has been feeling like this for weeks. I need help, because, my husband has been coughing and sounding nasal like. I am SO frustrated because I try to take care of him and he doesn't say anything. I can't play the guessing game. And plus when I am sick, I don't feel like doing anything but taking care of me. I monitor his meds, make sure he goes to dr. appts. , etc. But, I am still hoarse and before I get well, he pulls this stunt. I just want to throw up my arms and say I quit. But, of course, I can't. AARRGG! He has COPD, and emphysema and with this he could get a LOT worse!