Every time we visit mom & I get frustrated & if she comments about my frustration, Richard (hubby)ALWAYS (& I mean Always)sides w/her!!!Where does that leave me? Shouldn't he be on MY side for a change??? I don't know what to do about that. If you think I have a temper - his is worse - no physical abuse nothing like that but if you suggest he stop going w/me on weekends, please don't he won't llike it - I have already asked him if he wants to stop Saturday visits (we only stay about 30 min or so)but he said "no, in for a penny, in for a pound" which is nice but he doesn't support ME!!!