My husband gets so upset every time I tend to his needs. My dad has been living w/us since 4/2012. He had a stoke in December and since has become frail and has incontinent issues. I am able to handle all I need to do to care for my dd it's my husband that makes it more stressful. i watch my every move when he's home and this I normally do becomes more of a chore because of trying to hide all the help I give my dad. Prior to moving in and the stroke. We all 3 were VERY close. My dad was (is) in a bad marriage and we had offered him to move in with us if he ever needed. After the stroke my husband jumped on the chance to take him in.. Why is so resentful now. He new the care that was to be involved, we had met with DR's and therapist prior to the move here. My husband is making things so stressful and I don't get it!