Even though our grown children and his siblings and mom have asked me what is wrong with him, they now want to think that he is OK. Whenever I bring up the obvious odd things that he says, they try to explain it away. I don't know if they are trying to make me feel better or they are just in denial. So if he is OK, then who is going to validate me and my reality since we have been married for over 30 yrs. He can no longer do the job that he used to do. The last two yrs he has worked under someone else. Is anyone else in this situation?