okay, guess I'm stupid and you're always right. He then will start asking me if I want a divorce, and says he can fix that, the next hurtful thing is, I don't need you...you need me!
Then silence. I find that since his hearing is so bad, he sometimes thinks I have said something other than what I said, seems to always be on the defense, hard to get any conversations going with that in mind.
I just go day to day and try to keep things light, or is the other word for it...walk on egg shells?