I've been taking care of my mother-in-law for four years now with my hubby. We were ask by my hubbys dad to move in and help them with bills and care for mom. After one and half years of living with them dad passed away. Mom is showing signs of dementia and we talked to her doctor but he wont get her tested and we tryed to get her to go see another doctor but she wont go. She is getting more aggressive with me and kids at home, falling down, forgeting thing, hoarding fridge items in her closet, hiding dishes and silverware, she doesnt eat hardly anything, cant drive, She doesnt pay her bills and we are constantly having to pay them for her. We tried to put her in a home but cant. Is their anything we can do because now she wants us to get out of the house. She doesnt get enough s.s. to pay half the bills at the house and without the doctors help im lost.