How can a caregiver who is just beginning, find out how to do it and what to say and do correctly?? My husband and I have been caring for his parents, who have alzheimers. In Jan we are going to move into their basement and care for them on a daily basis. They are still capable of physically caring for themselves and my father-in-law is in the first stage. We are still working so I will eventually have to get daytime help with thier care. What all do we need to know about this disease and about the legal aspects for care?