My husband used all our tax refund plus to pay a hospital bill without telling me. Now our savings is very low. We don't have a lot of money and I was going to call the hospital to see about getting some help with the bill, which I told him, but of course he forgot. I'm angry with him, don't know how to talk to him about it and don't know how to keep him from controlling our finances. I'm afraid he's going to mess something up. He has MCI.