It's become clear to me through posts and PMs that there are some gardeners here just waiting for the chance to discuss gardening!
So, I was thinking... how do you use gardening, or how does it affect you if you need a break, need some respite, need to relax, need inspiration....how do you use it as a therapy tool in caregiving?
What are your activities: Do you go out and pull weeds, read a magazine, design new beds? Look through garden catalogues? Go to garden stores?
And what interests have you added to your gardening? Visit estate or garden displays? Do you go to garden shows?
Does anyone design and plant Knot Gardens? Raised bed planters? Assistive gardens? Pollinator gardens (and have you thought of ways to help the bees and butterflies?)
Are your gardens primarily for pleasure or food, or a mix of both? Do you grow plants for medicinal purposes? Which ones, how do you harvest and process them? Any suggestions?
Do you grow plants that can be used in crafts, such as grapevines for wreaths and lavender for lavender wands? Do you make herbal products such as creams, lotions, chapstick?
What else can you share about gardening and the means in which it nurtures your soul?
Veronica - I've grown scarlet runners on my balcony at home (I face south). They seem to do fairly well in our heat. But I have one of those shrinky hoses that I hook up to my kitchen faucet....mom doesn't have the right kind of taps for that. Hmmm. I'll have to think on this watering business. The strata by-laws don't allow for hanging plants on the balcony, which is annoying! The kitten doesn't go out there though (mom is 6 floors up, I don't trust him not to jump at a bird!), so it wouldn't matter. But I may get some indoor hanging plants, it's a good idea!
This strata business is annoying. I live in an apartment too, but a smaller (and shorter!) building, and privately owned. We have a huge communal yard and automatic sprinklers. Because I help out with the weeding, the landlord lets me muck about planting all kinds of things. I've taken that for granted!
I have mint and chives planted side by side and they just fight it out.
We just got a foot of snow yesterday so no chance of gardening. I had been planning but as we will be moving probably in May it will just be mowing and tidying up before that. Hope the daffodils show well this year.
Have you thought about hanging plants so the kitten can't reach them. There should be some nice hanging baskets available around Mothers Day. They should look pretty in Mom's place all summer and beyond.
I have some geraniums in big planters that i bring in every winter and they continue to bloom all year. I do clip them back every spring.
And no, nothing on an apartment balcony is really perennial here, unless you can store it in a garage or something over the winter. (Edit: ok some people manage small trees, but I'm not sure how....bottom heat maybe.) I do just wonder about morning glories and light/heat.....I've never grown them.
glad - mint is the worst! I find it has to be grown in a container or not at all. Friend of mine put it in the ground in a barrier-contained area, but it sure didn't stay contained for long!
cwillie - would they do ok in east light? I don't mind vigor. It is very hot and dry here in summer though, and it seems to me they get wilty fast, or am I wrong?
In BC, Columbia, I'm not sure you'd have to worry about them being semi-perennial, as they sometimes become in Michigan.
If you want to REALLY fantasize, Google Japanese Morning Glories. You'll see a new variety that literally makes you want to pay the price for these sometimes expensive beauties.
The Split Second, Chocolate, Venice Pink and Windmill Chocolate, Seiryu (stunning!) are lovely as well.
I've also grown Sweet Peas (so lovely and delicate). One of the vines I want to add for privacy are the wild and aggressive Polygonum Aubertii (silver lace vine). I've seen a pink variety which I'd love to have.
There are also the trumpet vine, hyacinth bean vine, clematis, hops (interesting decorative floral clumps) and others which could provide thick coverage.
Oh, oh....this always happens when I think about and look at photos of MGs - I want to go out and plant, even if there's still snow on the ground!
General rule be very careful of vines tend to them regularly. Now my mom used to put out sweet pea vines and she loved them so, pinks. This was when I was just a little kid. Wonder, now, if she stopped because they took over everything. Then there were the raspberry bushes and spearmint that I know she struggled with for years trying to get rid of. The spearmint was in her mint Julep days after returning from New Orleans. Wonder what trip the Moscow mule phase came from? The Mai Tai is easy to figure out.
No, she was never a big drinker but always returned from a trip with a new cocktail recipe. LOL! That would have been much easier than a recipe book which have been my trip souvenirs. Well I sure got off track didn't I? Reminiscing.
Soooooo empty at the garden centre! Mostly indoor plants and a few potted flowers. I wanted to buy some indoor plants for mom's place, but the kitten is not past the "tasting everything" phase. (The tulips have to live on the mantle, which he can't reach yet.)
I am going to miss growing my little garden at home this spring. I might do scarlet runner on mom's balcony so I don't have to look at the dumb shopping mall. (I welcome other fast-growing vine suggestions! We are zone 6.)
We stopped at potting two, and the 3rd one is on the porch. Gardening was therapy.
But, I may look it up for you. I too would like patio containers of the fruit trees.
Was at Home Depot tonight and they had bare root roses and trees and the fruit trees labeled ultra dwarf looked interesting - said they can be planted in containers on patios and bear fruit
I used to do a lot of gardening as part of my property maintenance job, till my injury. And I spent 3 summers clearing overgrowth and helping with landscaping, after a friend bought a disused hobby ranch. I had a gorgeous balcony garden and an indoor jungle till I moved my mom up here to care for her. All my plants withered from neglect, and all I have left are empty pots of dirt. So I haven't come in here, because I feel so bad for letting my lovely green friends die....
But I did buy myself a couple of houseplant ivies last week, for my bedroom windowsill at my mom's place. And I decided to pot the cats up some grass to nibble on at the same time. (Just regular grass seed in some dirt - I think the "cat grass" kits are about a 1000% markup for what you get.)
It was soooo lovely to sink my fingers into some nice, clean potting soil. And the smell! I missed it! I want to grow an indoor jungle again....but I'll have to "prove" myself with the ivies first.
As to drying out, I've read that anti-desicants can be used but I've never tried any. When I first planted my evergreens, I used burlap to create a protective area and minimize the effect of the westerly winds. Could you do something like that? I'm not sure whether the cemetery rules would allow it though.
Thanks for sharing; I like your idea and think I'll make some wreaths for my mother's and sister's graves.
I'm really glad you enjoyed them!
Well, the thought was good, but somehow the implementation lacked something...preservatives... I'm not really sure. I think I still have them upstairs in the studio someplace. But your comments on ferns reminded me of how lovely they are and how much I'd love to save that beauty somehow, other than in photographs.
BTW, are you familiar with fractals? Ferns are a good example.
CM, I remember that we had some discussion of fractals sometime ago. Are you still over here in the garden or are you, like many of us, hunkered down for a cold winter?
I tried to grow the Bostons in an apartment, but it was just too dry.
In the garden I have ostrich ferns and used to have some other ferns which gradually succumbed to hot weather, dryness, and other causes I haven't identified.
A variety that I really love are the ferns with shades of gold and somewhat of a rust color. They're just sooooo stunning! The VanBourgondien catalogue and especially Wayside Gardens have beautiful fern collections.
Do you take cuttings of your fern? You could create a Fern Garden throughout the house!