My mom has live-in help but the brunt of bill-paying, first response, etc. is on my sister. Sis is at the end of her rope, BUT she invited the whole family to her house for Thanksgiving. She called me saying she doesn't want anyone there. Well, that ship has sailed. I tried to tell her to run off and take a day or two to herself while we're there. Anyone who is in her position who can give constructive advice on how I can help her?