We have finally made the decision to take mom to a nursing home. She really cannot be alone anymore while I'm at work. I work full time and my sister is constantly busy, and and everyone else lives too far. But now I'm filling guilty, sad, and guilty again. I know it is for her won good as well as mine. The stress was getting to be too much. I'm worried about abuse and neglect at the home. I just never really wanted this for her, but she refused to cooperate from the beginning and learn to live like 2 adults. I guess they are always the parent and we are always the children. Just needed to vent to someone that will understand more than those around me seem to. Thanks.