50 years old and it seems my elderly dad seems to think hes got the right to know every single detail of my life. Everything it seems he expects me to get his approval for it seems. No matter how many times he just won't leave it alone.
I work in IT. Dads cousin asked me if I could help out his grandson who was looking for a job. I said yes I would speak to a few people I knew. I saw Dad the weekend and he mentioned his cousin had told him he'd spoken to me.
So of course Dads got to get involved here. He mentioned the job I'd told him about that was on offer in my office (wish I hadn't told him!). I said no they want someone with 10-15 years experience so it's no good for him.
Yesterday got call from Dad's cousin saying he'd got message from Dad that I couldn't help because his grandson had no experience. What?
Made me look like a right idiot. Spoke to Dad and said why on earth did you feel the need to "pass on a message" when I didn't ask you to do this? His answer "I was just helping"
So I said look it's sorted, I can help. His answer "OK I'll pass the message on". Aaaargggghhhhhh NO!!!!!!!!!!