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Or could be she is bored and living vicariously through you.
In any case you need to set some ground rules.
You are an adult and deserve to be respected.
The roles have not necessarily reversed but she needs to know she is not the boss any longer.
Also, I found that I was not communicating with her appropriately. For example, I would fume over something thinking that she would get the "hint." Finally, I just spoke my mind as calmly as I could and she finally got the picture. The fact that your Mom shares quarters with you makes it even more imperative that you have open communication or you will just continue to be resentful and lose yourself in the midst.
good luck,
Lilli