My father was diagnosed with Alzheimers/dementia and we have had many issues with urinary and bowel problems. He has agreed to wear diapers however our issue is that he has bowel obsession. He expects to go everyday and usually he does. It's when he does that we have problems. He wipes himself but gets feces all over his hand then it's all over him, the toilet walls, bathroom counters etc. Anyone have any suggestions?On top of this problem he refuses to shower so needless to say he can get very ripe smelling. He will only get into the shower for my brother who cannot be there all the time.