Holy. He will not budge from our 4200 sq ft home and refuses to do a Will much less all the other important documents. He and I have both been widowed and I could take him in the back yard and shake him til he’s naked, but doubt that would help. We are ok, not rich by any means. But I’ve no idea what the future holds. I’m 70. We are both in good health except for this damn dementia stuff. Must add, his doctor can talk to mine which is how I got the diagnoses but husband refuses to give me access to his doctor or records. What does anyone think?