My mother has been staying with us since Easter. She has a history of severe depression, but has been getting steadily worse over the last 2 years and I finally forced her to go see a doctor. He said she had the brain of someone in their late 80's. She was only supposed to be here a week and we're going on week #4.
My brothers (I have 4) all live in her hometown, along with her husband. Her house has always been cluttered, but lately it has really gotten away from her. I realize now she just isn't capable of cooking, cleaning, etc. Her husband is very lazy. I just don't know what to do.