My mother in law is getting mean. she doesn't want to spend money on necessities like getting her heat fixed--even though she has plenty of money. Her husband died a year ago. She has 3 sons and she treats them like there still little boys ,she will not trust them. She is 80 yrs old and lives by herself and still drives and cares for herself. I think it is getting tough on her, but she will not ask for help or anything. She is so stubborn. No one can get through to her. She thinks she is so tough. But I know something is going on with her. She doesn't show emotion very often.